I’m not a bloke usually found whistling first thing in the morning, being more of a night howl.
But at circa 7am this week as I stood there watching the kettle not boil, I began whistling away like Roger bloody Whittaker calling after his dogs.
If you must know, it was Hotel California by The Eagles (1977).
I nearly dropped a scalding kettle over my toes at the sudden shock of it all.
I don’t know why I was whistling and I can’t remember the last time I heard that song.
More importantly of all, I can’t really remember whistling in the morning for years, not having had a great deal to whistle about.
So in that idle moment this week, it really felt like something had changed.
That, perhaps, the world looked a few shades brighter for the first time in years.
The sky is blue, the Black Dog is in his kennel, and all I can blame this outbreak of howling on is that this week I spent a day with the Oldest of Old Flames, aka OOOF.
And an OOOF day it turned out to be too.
Regular unlikers of this column will know that I finally tracked her down in April.
We hadn’t seen each other this century and I think we last spoke on the phone around the turn of the Millennium, circa 1998.
We first got together at 14 which is 36 years ago, and were last a fully-fledged item back in 1994 when we were both 22.
We went our separate ways that summer as we wanted very different things from life. I basically wanted her to be more fully in mine and she didn’t.
I had the career tied to one place, and as an international jet-setter from Spain, she understandably had other places to go.
Yet here we are again in 2022, both aged 50, both single, both in Cumbria.
And as I got off the train on Wednesday afternoon and threw my arms around her, all the old fireworks started to go off.
It was like being reunited with a missing piece of myself. Like in Terminator 2 where that fella’s limbs grow back.
Except for me it was a bit of old broken heart.
Being a cool, independent lone wolf, I decided against an on-the-spot proposal of marriage until after lunch.
Sitting there in a distant pub with warm sun streaking through the windows and OOOF chattering away and stroking every pet in the place, the decades melted away.
It could have been 1993 all over again.
I’d forgotten quite how dark brown her eyes are and how much I enjoy looking in them.
Even one of the late mother’s favourite songs randomly chunked on to the old jukebox like a karmic ghost was playing DJ.
Paul Simon’s Graceland (1986) – which I last heard at her funeral.
OOOF’s cats curled endlessly around my legs and purred, and her pet parrot wasn’t sick all over me.
I can’t put my finger on what it all means. Is it chemistry, coincidence, kismet, or lager carbohydrates?
We have both stood on our own two feet but it was very special to roll back the years and be a couple again. Me agreeing with everything I disagree with!
The train had barely left the station before I got a text telling me the day was PRECIOUS! (Her capitals).
If you and a significant ex ever find yourself in the position to mend burned bridges, I would recommend you try it.
It does wonders for the state of mind and you might find yourself whistling Hotel California near a hot kettle in an open dressing gown.
As for OOOF and I, there are large, personal, hurdles.
And typically, on my long and contemplative train journey home, I saw that blasted single Magpie who seems to follow me around all the time.
I saluted it with both fingers and started to whistle the tune to Graceland.